If I Could Talk to Baby Gabby I Would Tell Her......
Hey You!
So lately Ive been thinking about my life and where I am now. I’m in a completely different place than I was this time last year and I love that fact.
Anywho, I’ve decided to write a little something to my younger self, things I’ve learned a long the way that I didn’t always know. Some points may be things you already know. But I’m hoping there are more that help your heart,
So here we go…
Dear baby gabby,
-Breath. Everything doesn’t have to happen exactly when you want or how you want. Trust the process. Trust your process. Everything takes time so take your time. There’s a method to the madness I promise.
-Don’t let overthinking kill your joy. Okay so dating is scary. Friendships can be scary. Life is scary. But you have to try. No matter when you get up to try again, you will ALWAYS be taking a risk, thats just how it goes. Be at peace with the fact that no matter what happens you will still be whole and you will still be worthy.
-YOUR WORTH DOES NOT DECREASE BASED ON THE INABILITY OF ANOTHER PERSON TO SEE IT. THEIR LOSS. SLAY.
-It’s okay to be sad sometimes. It’s also okay to be happy. Don’t lie to yourself about the way you feel. That’s not how we grow baby.
-Don’t talk yourself out of a good thing. You do that all of the time. Remember what Morgan said, it’s okay to be happy with out the drama. It’s possible and you deserve it. SO if a little slice of happiness finds you, embrace it. It’s okay to be scared but it’s not okay to not try because of fear. You’re only hurting yourself.
-Everything happens for a reason. This sentence will help you on your bad days.
-Taylor is always right lol
-Not every situation requires a reaction. No one deserves the right to be able to get you out of character. Lions don’t concern themselves with the opinion of sheep. Boom.
-Don’t let anyone tell you who you are. You are the only one who has the right to write the pages of your story.
-You look great in all black. It’s literally a necessity lol
-Don’t forget to take care of yourself. Self-care is the best care. You have needs too. Don’t forget them.
-You are strong. You are worthy. And it will always be okay. I promise.